Most of us agree on the fact that says “women are emotional and men are rational” but that doesn’t mean men have no emotions; it just means that emotions are not priorities to refer things back to. A man’s emotion is the most invaluable thing after dignity. Never dare and play with a man’s emotions, you can easily hurt him emotionally but you’ll have to endure what’s next.
I’ve been emotionally attached to many people through my life. Perhaps, as Billy Joel says I was so ambitious for a juvenile or a crazy child who wanted to fall in love at a time I didn’t know what love exactly means. However, it was really hurtful and painful especially when you have true love for the wrong person. You never know how it feels unless you are there. When in love, we are willing to be sincere, loyal, honest, supportive, motivational and always ready to sacrifice for the one we love. We are always on beck and call to help our beloved ones despite all kinds of problems we might have then. I, personally, tend to be extremely loyal in love, it gets me to a point where I stop eating and live only on water and love. The total mess comes when table turns, if you are with the wrong person, you’ll definitely be speechless. No any kind of help is offered. No hugs, kisses, rubs on shoulder or even one word. I proudly have been there… trust me, you don’t want to hear the rest of my story.
When the worse comes to the worst, our soul mates -that don’t share the same amount of love and care from their side- start taking us for granted; it becomes your duty and mission to make them feel good no matter how shitty they are. You become a part of their routine especially if you used to be supportive and helpful. Whenever they feel bad pessimistic and in need to talk, you surely get called. Once again, I have been there, I never minded to help and was always fulfilling my duty perfectly. I never left my friends sad and helpless; I was there even if I needed more help. It was between me and God, it was for a higher purpose but tables turned and I needed them, you know what? I didn’t find anyone. I knew they hide love and respect to me but how is that supposed to help? They never sacrificed for me nor did they make me their priority in complaining.
At such a time all we need is a hug, kiss or a listening ear. Hidden love and respect never made sense during conflicts. Today, I’m so reminded of my lost emotions, they did wander off and can barely find someone to welcome or at least give an ear. Do not take others for granted, please, I beg you especially if they truly love you.